Video story about female alcoholism
Added video on alcoholism, it is one of the editions of the program "Scanner" on ORT, the plot - a woman's alcoholism, for the first nine minutes of time to tell you a lot of facts, many of them of course, very controversial, to tell the whole story in his own words did not criticize, and discuss some of the phrases I will like all the comments. Therefore, sat and wrote down word for word, the video consists of a voice-over text, comment specialist (doctor of medical sciences, professor, director of clinical studies of alcoholism Addiction Research Institute of Medical Sciences in Moscow, Vladimir Altshuler), and the stories of two women who have experienced female alcoholism.
Anna (the heroine of the story): "The reason it (not the cause but the reason) to drink a good many years ago had a personal relationship with a man. Oh, I was thrown. Oh, I changed. Oh, I do not like. Oh, I do not need anyone ... stupidity. And alcohol just got on fertile ground, and began. I can definitely say that I lost quite a normal family, a loved one, perhaps even a child. "
Externally absolutely a happy woman 35-40 years, higher education, income above the average, divorced - a portrait of an average woman who is diagnosed with alcoholism. Around the issue of female alcoholism are many myths:
1. Myth of the first and most important - Female alcoholism in contrast to the male is no cure. In fact, it is not. Like any chronic illness, alcoholism be cured ... on one condition - an alcoholic, whether man or woman who never should drink even a glass of traditional holidays.
Vladimir Altshuler: "Female alcoholism impression on the plight of people, and these conversations that he was particularly heavy, especially incurable they just based on impressions. In a society just become a tradition to prohibit the drinking of women and encourage men sometimes drunkenness.
Medicines for alcoholism almost there, there are only drugs, which cause intolerance to alcohol, mostly patient fed pills, which are used in general psychiatry, they make a person more accessible to psychotherapy.
Maria (the heroine of the story): "To drink, I started saving first husband, from drunkenness, could drink a lot and because they often drink, the more I drank, the less he got. Eventually, I divorced him, not noticing itself that retracted into the drink. "
Mary, a fictitious name, a successful economist, between binge she managed to keep the financial affairs of several companies. It is a family.
2. This is a myth that an alcoholic - always degraded woman. Woman alcoholic does not necessarily lie in the gutter, but always comes a time when the singer can not sing, a journalist - to write, an accountant - to consider ...
Anna (the heroine of the story): "First, the problem comes from outside, ie I, as a violent alcoholic, there are people who drink, go to bed and love the whole world and I begin a very active life with the search for justice, adventure, driving at the wheel (one of the worst sins a - riding behind the wheel). There have been periods in my work experience as I could for the month did not come to work five times, I have been so severe withdrawal symptoms that I did not care what happens, but at least there gori all blue flame, but when you consider that I worked as director of live broadcast ... you know what to do I was responsible? It did not matter what happens, or dismiss me, or does not get fired, only to what is happening to me it's over, but I can not stand. "
3. Myth number three - losing themselves into drinking only when consumed liquor. Actually it is not so: women tend to start with wine, beer, gin and tonic. There are even varieties: beer alcohol, wine alcohol, cognac alcohol. In this case the victims of beer alcoholism are most often the girls 25-30 years old (with beer begin teenagers, alcoholism - a disease not fast, just developing at this age).
Unlike men, a woman drinking alone at the beginning, the reason is simple - very few of the ladies like vodka, made her drink the company, and the second or third glass of wine is not considered shameful to drink in solitude. Ambient may not immediately notice that the woman has a problem.
Maria (the heroine of the story): "You know, it was gradual transitions - from beer, wines to heavier drinks, like vodka ... finished with vodka, of course. The patient I think I am 30 years old, but some clinical symptoms, when the rest of the house already, there have been started years with a 35-ty.
Female alcoholism differs from the male on medical grounds, a woman losing themselves into drinking, or more correctly, falls ill on average for 2-3 years, men are kept for five years longer. The reason is that women are not physically fit for drinking, their brains more vulnerable, their body is less water to dilute the alcohol, in addition, women have worse working enzymes, processing alcohol. That is why one and the same dose, male elephant that pellet, and the woman enough to fall under the table.
Women endure worse alcohol dependence, they quickly develop cirrhosis of the liver, they simply break the normal nutrition of tissues and muscles, a typical female trait of alcoholism - a disproportionate thinness of the legs, different runs delirium tremens. In men it is accompanied by video hallucinations, ie catching green men and devils, for women - hearing: they hear voices.
Categories of women suffering from alcoholism:
- Those over forty, from her husband ran away;
- The new Russian wife, she was bored and she feels useless;
- Business woman, when things cease to occupy all his thoughts, she suddenly discovers that the most important in the life of the family and family that she had not.
Vladimir Altshuler: "The men often have such an ideological platform of their drinking, such an entire worldview, why drink, what drink, and do not drink can, and do that for a man who does not drink. For women, something I do not recall this.
At the heart of female alcoholism are emotional issues: betrayal, loneliness, sexual frustration ... If you list them all, get a huge list, but all of these disorders occur in the life of almost any woman, just someone have the strength to fight it, some do not.
Woman who underwent a course of treatment, difficult to adapt to society. Man-alcoholic will support in every possible way around, from the woman alcoholic, as a rule, shunned by all. In Russia's tradition, if a man drinks, his spare, if a woman drinks - condemn.
Vladimir Altshuler: "There were formerly offices for the female and male alcohol abuse alcohol department, and during the visit or on weekends, long lines of attendees are in the men's department there and his wife, sister, lover, mother ... and the women's division one."
After the hospital, doctors recommend the patient to change his life, to lose the apartment, work, friends, Anya, a former director of broadcasting, the left with television, now works for drug addiction, she is lucky, she recovered, a little luck, according to statistics - only every tenth.
Female alcoholism humiliating. A person will never be the same, ex alkogolichek seen in the one-two. If you notice that someone from the family every evening consumes a bottle of beer - react until it's too late!
This is a nightmare! I do not know, maybe I just got used to the male alcoholics, but has recently been in the hospital, he saw a woman in delirium tremens. It was no longer a woman! A strange sort of person, matter in all directions and shouting all the abuse. Women, in any case not have to start drinking!
I would say that is not so easy to distinguish alcoholic if she did not have such problems
and yet I believe that a very serious problem of female alcoholism in Russia is probably because men drank themselves quite well that do not tell the woman must also be for someone to build at least sometimes
In women, alcohol is worse for some reason,, the men easier to treat.
Female alcoholism is a very scary .. When a woman gets drunk, and spit on her own children .. When a child asks for chocolate and the mother says that there is no money and at the same time taking a bottle .. A drunk goes to sleep .. goes under itself .. waking blames somebody, I just was not herself .. and children see it ...
my sister, an alcoholic, length of about 7 years if not more than it is now 28. In his time came, but her whole generation 81g hit first on the drug heroin + alcohol who jumped from the drug went on the alcohol, now she understands that she was a complete shit, but can not throw someone threw one knows how this is difficult. What to do ....
Algolizm - it promlema. But we can not let it take its course or to indifference. After reviewing a video clip, I realized that I had to cope with my desire to drink. It will be difficult. I am not writing for trezvenikov, who without us a lot of problems, many of them can not cope and svomi problems. Women who We spent at this site should think over his future. May God give you patience and happiness.
Paul Your sister should just go all the way to the bottom apparently, but do not be sad it's her way, and then finally may (or may not be) it will start to sober up, knowing that the sick, sly and cunning, umeyushey pick up everything - a disease that's when and help her get out. Recognition of a dependent and sick man the first step to recovery, of course it really does not pass all. It should be very easy to plow over him.
Paul, most importantly, do not throw sister, support it. When a person (whether women - men) problems, it becomes much worse, worse, if it shunned by relatives.
Perhaps you are her only hope and support. This is important - to know that brother will always help and support. This is encouraging.
Good luck!
My mom was alkogolikom.Ya and did not even notice how it sluchilos.Ona drinking alone, hiding the alcohol in his shkafu.No reached a point where alcohol was on the face, and on the tables of herself is not restrained, became loose, coarse, vulgarnoy.Mne was very embarrassing for a woman nee.Takaya abhorrence and condemnation from others, there is a desire to help when it is her own husband and daughter mixes with gryazyu.A her four growing children, my home brat.Ya very afraid for him, and for the pope, in his nervous pressure zashkalivaet.Samoe terrible that her mother totally rejected the treatment, she likes to self-pity and blaming others is that all of its doveli.My all horrified by what she get up when drunk. She was howling, and mother, and throws himself on nas.Chto do? Forcibly do not otvedesh to the hospital, and my dad skeptical of the fact vyzdorovleniya.Dolzhen also be a way ...
That's all - for me! I - a successful man, do not tell me that I have alcohol dependence. But I can not drink the day 10, and then again the next 3.5 days of booze and terrible depression. Work related to creativity, everything is on the emotions, the adrenaline. My adult son, the second beloved husband, who knows my problems and suffering. To drink, I started with the first, it is us and waved, but the craving remains. If drank 100 g and sleep ... No, at least 4L of beer or almost a bottle of vodka without starters ... And then a wild aggression, hysteria, loss of memory ... morning depression, hangover, a desire to change. Moved away for three days, then I am glad of life, so I am glad that once again wants to drink ... And so on new terms. I want to change something. If you change, make sure you write how I did it.
My wife is also an alcoholic, she was 29 years old. A week ago, I sewed it Isperal for 3 years. Now does not drink alcohol and I have always been indifferent, and recently decided not to drink at all. And my father was alcoholic, too, want him to sew.
I have a feeling that there is no such person in the CIS countries, which somehow was not a victim of alcohol abuse. We should unite the common people and to combat this disease.
With regard to female alcoholism, it's really bad when my wife gets drunk on her or her husband or child is not necessary, as her mother, even though the ball all the catty, just to have another drink. All people should stop drinking, just for the sake of children, not to show them an example. Our children will also be treated by society, which inspired them not to drink can, and you are their example will show the opposite. You will have the chance to protect the child from drinking. For me it is the main total.
The last 15 years, all trying to pull his wife but all to no avail, taking to the track bucks now 3 weeks plump with his papa degeneratom.Za this time, there were clinics and doctors, and sewing with a knife and rushed at me from behind the door in a dark room and a daughter it caught in the window when she had to catch up and the apartment she bully ... the horror! By the way all this time I did not ever never laid a finger, except for cases with a knife then I have her just minutes to cut down 20.I now I am 46 and I matured mentally put an end to our relationship.
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